Episode 139

139 - Myths and Tips for Successful Dating and Relationships

139 - True Romance Meets Your Needs

Are you tired of the same old dating advice that doesn't work? The Selfish Romantic debunks common myths about dating and relationships and encourages readers to be true to themselves, communicate honestly, and treat dating as an experiment. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to find "the one" - instead, actively participate in your love life and approach dating with curiosity and an open mind.

The author emphasizes the importance of honesty and authenticity while dating, reminding readers to be themselves and learn more about their potential partners. Whether you're getting back into the dating world or just looking to improve your experiences, The Selfish Romantic offers practical tips and advice to help you find love on your terms.

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Jill McKinley

I’m Jill from the Northwoods. Professionally, I work in Health IT, where I untangle complex systems and help people use technology more effectively. But at heart, I’m a curious lifelong learner—always exploring how things work, why people grow the way they do, and how even the smallest steps can spark real transformation. That curiosity fuels everything I do, from problem-solving at work to sharing insights through my creative projects.

My journey wasn’t always easy. Growing up, I faced a rough childhood, and books became my lifeline. They introduced me to voices of ancient wisdom, modern psychology, and the natural world around me. Those pages taught me resilience, gave me perspective, and helped me see that wisdom is everywhere—waiting to be noticed, gathered, and shared.