Episode 59

59 - Can Nice People Get Ahead?

59 - Can Nice People Get Ahead

I talk about the book “Barking Up the Wrong Tree” by Eric Barker and I have to say, it really got me thinking. As a nice person, I often wonder if it’s possible to get ahead in life and work without being a jerk. And according to Barker, it is! Sure, appearance and making a good impression on bosses are important, but in the long run, it’s the givers who are more successful. By practicing generous tit-for-tat and forgiving after being betrayed, we build a reputation as trustworthy and kind people. So let’s focus on reciprocity and being the best versions of ourselves because that’s what really pays off in the end.

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https://www.amazon.com/Barking-Wrong-Tree-Surprising-Everything/dp/0062416049

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Jill McKinley

Jill McKinley is an IT professional, lifelong learner, and multi-podcast creator based in Wisconsin. Known as "Jill from the Northwoods," she hosts five shows spanning practical life change, Christian faith formation, sequential Bible study, nature science, and AI for everyday people. Her content is grounded, structured, and built for listeners who want depth without overwhelm — one small step at a time. Find her at jillfromthenorthwoods.com.